01.07.15

In what way has porn /porn culture affected your life ?

I have wanted to explore this subject for so long , it is a constant topic of conversation not only in my own home but in the homes of many people I have spoken to.I have heard stories and opinions from such a variety of people that I know for certain I am not the only person asking this question. We are at the beginning of this process,so your insights and thoughts will be extremely important to me and my little team as we begin to structure how to best explore this topic .Your voices are valuable to me and my hope is that this will be a collaborative exploration based on our real life experiences and truths.

Please share your ideas , thoughts and stories below in the comments section or you can email me directly here : documentary@amandadecadenet.com

Thanks so very much

Amanda x

 

Comments

  • Anne

    Just stumbled across this. I see it’s an old post, but it feels fresh to me. I recently discovered that my husband has been secretly watching porn for the duration of our eight year relationship. Very early on, I wondered if he was into porn and so I told him that I wasn’t interested in having a relationship with someone who is using porn. He lied, told me he wasn’t into it. And now, I’ve found out he watches it almost every day and always has. I feel devastated and furious. I am a beautiful, strong feminist woman who loves sex. I’ve been asking him for more sex for about 3-4 years. Turns out he’s just giving it to his hand. We have two very small children; I feel like my body is a bit beaten up from their creation, plus I’m 42. Knowing my husband is choosing not to fuck me but rather to jack off to girls half my age just fucking hurts. And it makes me sick. I feel completely betrayed, and now trapped with something that I was very clear was a dealbreaker to me. Plus I’ve been being lied to for 8 years, every day. Even if I was interested in seeing his perspective (which I’m still too hurt to be interested in), I’m not sure how the partners of intense porn users get over how degrading much of porn is to women–being choked by dicks, hair pulled, slapped, etc. It seems so hateful. Would love to hear anyone’s thoughts. Thanks for reading.

  • LGBT

    in case you haven’t hear about HUMP, an amateur porn film festival -http://humptour.strangertickets.com/

  • Sylvie

    You may want to watch Cindy Gallop’s TED talk and her thoughts about this subject.
    She’s a straight shooter and talks candidly about her experience with men. Her talk (and perhaps an interview with her) is a must for a documentary like this.

  • Astrid Carolina Case

    Dear friends: So normal for couples to watch porn…I can’t understand the disagreement or the big deal…if is so difficult to accept and so tabu…imagine if we try to talk about sexual fantasies when….. and why…and such…booooo…scaaary…

  • Porn is the living expression of being vulnerable as a gratuitous giver, that creates gratuitous receivers. I have proof that Jehovah the most high GOD has opened the sexual revolution as a prelude to the end of all religion, because religion is the tribulation in the earth. Being honest about the wrongs of religion that everyone can see when they read the translation of the scriptures, begins with the honesty about sex. Demonstration is the purest form of honesty, thus the sexual revolution is the foundational basis for all clergy to denounce their own battlements, as it is called fornication in the bible to talk about our creator without his Name or commandments as the marriage covenant that connects flesh and Angels. Porn is more than OK, it is the honest demonstration and expression with proof, that brings happiness and satisfaction to all that we are honest lovers. Best lovers are able to give and receive by experience. To acquire that experience by visual demonstration without relation is pure, complete, and ready to be owned and built by a partner in person. To create desire is to ignite energies for effort. To do that in sexuality for happiness, is to kindle the fire that Jehovah our happy god works in by the thoughts and desires of man being expounded on and run by his Angels. I have lived the proof. Dennis Burdick, McHenry Illinois
    http://www.jehovahsisrael.blogspot.com This is the truth about Angel Sex, and Demon Sex of religion that destroys Jehovah’s Name by excluding him from their time.

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