10.30.12 Love

5 Tips For Dealing With Your Partner Looking At Other Women

5 Tips For Dealing With Your Partner Looking At Other Women

BY Sarah Prout

Men look at other women and it’s perfectly normal. However, many women feel uncomfortable and start fuming (read: steam billowing out of their ears) when they see their lover eye-balling a younger woman wearing a tight dress or bust them looking at the most ridiculously-themed porn. Have you seen some of that stuff? It’s seriously hilarious and I know you know what I’m talking about.

Here are some practical tips for dealing with this situation:

1. See it for what it is.
I think that the base cause of the feelings of discomfort for women when their partners look at other ladies can be insecurity and it’s really a pointless waste of your precious energy. From personal experience I can honestly say there have been times that my blood wanted to boil when I caught my partner mentally undressing a random woman in a restaurant, supermarket or in the post office. But the biological essence of the situation is that it means nothing. Literally nothing. It’s a fleeting surge that happens within the mind of the man and doesn’t mean he’s going to spontaneously sweep the attractive stranger off her feet and run away with her.

2. Jealousy is not very pretty.
Some men are better than others when it comes to taking a sneaky peek at a hottie. I know if I was a man I’d be pretty good at it I think. I’m pretty good at it now when I check out a man I find attractive.

The key point to remember here is that it’s about feeling worthy within yourself and not letting jealously rattle your cage. By comparing yourself to the woman you bust your partner looking at can be really upsetting and damaging to your
self-esteem if you let it.

3. Transform your fear into trust.
Just remember that it’s not an opportunity to question the special nature of your relationship or question your own unique attractiveness. Fear always attracts more fear so make sure that you approach any issues that make you feel
awkward with a sense of calm when you feel it’s necessary to discuss this with your partner.

Essentially, it’s all about empowerment: feeling comfortable in your own skin so it shouldn’t bother you whatsoever if your man checks out other women.

4. Invite your partner to channel the sexual energy towards you.
I opened a discussion to my boyfriend recently about this tpic as he felt slightly uncomfortable expressing to me that he indeed feels attracted to other women. I told him that this falls into the category of his own private conversation with the Universe and I don’t need to know everything. I also told him that the way I intend to view the situation is that I’m the lucky lady that gets to have all of that energy channelled into me (if you catch my drift) in the privacy and sanctity of our relationship.

5. Allow yourself to shine.
I’ve spent way too much of my life not feeling worthy and choosing to get grumpy over stupid, insignificant stuff. But I’m choosing NOW to be the best time ever to celebrate my own sexiness, my own beauty and my own ability to intend that I feel secure in all situations that arise. The key is alignment and moving away from fear based sense of false competition to allow the essence of our glorious expression as women to shine!

Sarah Prout is a bestselling author, co-founder of the Adventures In Manifesting series, entrepreneur, publisher and mumma of 2 little darlings. She reaches over 55,000 followers in over 24 countries around the globe with heartfelt, vibrant and empowering advice about love, business and style. Visit: SarahProut.com.

Sarah Prout is a bestselling author, co-founder of the Adventures In Manifesting series, entrepreneur, publisher and mumma of 2 little darlings. She reaches over 55,000 followers in over 24 countries around the globe with heartfelt, vibrant and empowering advice about love, business and style. See more of Sarah's work on her website.

Comments

  • Kelly 2

    I can never understand why a woman would want her partner to be intimate with her while thinking of another woman or using her as a release for.sexual tension because he has been thinking about having sex with other women all day.why should women continue to accept it. I would rather be alone than a glory hole and have to reassure my self at least he came home to have sex with me rather than act on his thoughts. I’m so tired of articles that justify me making whores out of their partners. Which is a joke in its self.if you actually think a man would sit and discuss truthfully thus subject you have fooled yourself. If men didn’t think about humping everyone they look there would be no reason to have mental pep men don’t admire beauty they pervert it and use the woman that loves them as an open access freebee. Men want sex with the hottest women they can.they settle for women that will have them and use fantasy to full in the blanks. That’s how it is but if it makes you feel better to to love by t illusion that men aren’t complete pieces of shit then so be it. If you think your not good enough when you seethe women that has captured your mans eye he’s probably thinking the same thing..at least you will know who he’s thinking about Durning sex that night.there us no such thing as a happy committed man ethers always going to be others on his mind and if you don’t accept that your insecure or a Bitch. I think I deserve the same dedication I put into a

    • baby blues

      This is exactly how I feel, and I hate feeling this way. My boyfriend and I decided to have a baby. We had our son 8 weeks ago. Yes, I put on some weight, but I still felt relatively attractive and my sex drive was good. However, one day I was feeling a little down in the dumps and insecure about my body, and I did something really stupid… I went on my boyfriend`s phone and checked his internet history, and there it was… umpteen sites with drop dead beautiful women in bikinis, skimpy outfits etc. and a few porn sites sprinkled in there. The `Free Father`s Day Porn`site is the one that pissed me off the most. I now feel absolutely shitty and insecure about myself, and my sex-drive is gone. I`m hurt, angry and I don’t know what to do to get back to my happy place! Is he really picturing other women when he`s with me? And visualizing having sex with these women? I’d really like a man’s honest response, and any feedback from women on how to make these feelings go away!

    • shweta MG

      Nothing. Ditch the feeling, go and enroll for post pregnancy fitness classes to get you sexier, as the glow from pregnancy lasts for ages.
      Get back to shape, wear sexy sophisticated outfits when you re out with him. Get heads turning to you and make him feel insecure. That’s the payback. Let him feel scared to loose both you and his child.
      I don’t know if its helpful but whenever I felt low or ticked off, I use this and. It guarantees me 200% satisfaction. Plus it’s so much fun to self indulge and see positive results.
      If he still does that, remember you don’t live for him, you didn’t enter this world with him nor do you leave the world with him attached to your hips. So I’m being blunt, but I think detachment and self reinvention guarantee you far richer benefits…..

      Than waiting and commiserating on the wrongs. Take all that thought, all the time spent on thoughts, the energy and turn it to your favour.
      This is true for all women who suffer. Trust me even beautiful women suffer, no one us is exempt from some form of insecurity. They might not be able to compose a thought provoking conversation or thought, like you have…..( they’re airheads or self absorbed or some plain shallow). It’s seriously not class to flaunt that, one will realise as you see better ways of dressing.
      I feel pity for such women. We never know how exploited they are. Really to shed the cloth to let strangers critique their body? Isn’t that a sad existence? Be happy and grateful to god, you have a healthy baby, you’re a civilized being capable of self expression and have all the ability to change for the best. If you choose to right? That’s more good luck than all what you described as making you feel less worthy.
      In my opinion you re more worthy.

      Bottom line: Go out and self indulge and get back to Sexy. It’s gradual but the results ? So worth it, better than allowing yourself to feel this.

    • Lorie

      So true. I done this and I felt better especially after I prayed too I got answers

    • brooke

      Absolutely spot on! That is where i’m heading now with myself & after worrying & not feeling good about the actions of my husband, staring at others. I have come to the conclusion to make ME feel & look the best i ever have;-) onto it!!

    • myheartbrokeintopieces lax

      hi shweta. I have Been noticing my husband staring at other women and it’s not bearable. I see him doing dat front of me reacting as if it’s a film sort of romance..we live in London we r really big family I have sister in law who’s character is not good since she was living in India after she got married to my brother I have heard so many story’s about her from others..and she’s now in London with us she lives with my brother and I live with my husband…the problem is I saw dem doing gardening together she was actually helping him washing his hand when I saw dem and dey saw me he got scared after while I took him to my room discussed him about dis and he start giggling and fritening and starts lie lie and lie..second time it was Christmas party my brother organised a party in a garage with cousins and she was actually having flirt staring giggling having a sweet sweet talks with my brother but dat was actually for my husband I spent all dat party hours with all of dem just be coz of her otherwise I do not like staying in party’s with any1 in dat very cold just becoz I was thee all dat time she’s coming inside the house and telling my mum dat y she’s der in dat cold and smoke from barbuque when she’s keep coming there to have a chance with my husband…third time it was in the kitchen when I washing dish she was washing hands den my husband keep in between to have water to boil den after while she went n again my husband was having chocolate milk but just trying for first time she came and start talking sweet sweet literally asking what’s dat its got some soya beens in der den laughed and giggled my husband too den she stand der for long time our kitchen is too short my husband passed fro her she’s pregnant too so she have a big Tommy she didn’t even move back and they had touch to touch I saw dat by my own eyes…den I reacted to my husband by saying I’m not stupit or dumb dat I don’t see anything I have my eyes..the things is dat I’m kind of strict to my husband with paticulr things so I keep telling him not go out for no reason every time I do dat n she try and bums into the conversation just to get attanttion from my husband try to be good and I’m bad in front of my husband she will be like let him go n blah blah no matter how bad the situation is she always try to be sweet but when my mum tells her something she’s always replys rudely it’s not just once she interfere but every time I have conversation with my husband in any way..when tells dis stuff to my family no1 understands it specially my mum she tells me her experience tell me dat u have A good husband dat he doesn’t go sleeps with her even though she her room door open when my brother is not there. Today I will be having talk with my sister in law telling not to interfere when I’m talking to my husband dnt try to proof dat I’m bad n u r good so u can take my position also goin to tell her to stay up in her room and not watching TV all day n showing off ur big bums and boobs she usually calls my husband brother but in action like she really cares about him…please reply to me if I’m doing right I’m also goin to take my husband out and have talk with him as well just going to explain him to stay away from her as she have dat habit of having a go with others husband like she did India

    • maria

      My name is Sophia from usa,i never believe in spell until i contacted
      this great man of spirit called DR ABIZA.Me and my husband have been
      married for three years and we had a baby boy,before we got married we
      dated for two years and we love each other so much.But i never knew that
      he was having an affair with one of my closest friend and they have
      been seen each other for about four months.One day he came home and
      raise up an unnecessary argument with me and we had a quarrel so he
      threaten to live the house which he did the following day and he left me
      and the kid to be with my so called friend,so in the course of my
      distress i was reading some pages on the internet on how to get back a
      lost husband,then i saw a testimony by Jessica on how DR ABIZA help her
      to get back her ex boy friend,so i also contacted the DR via the email
      address provided by Jessica and he told me that my friend cast a spell
      on my husband that made him to leave me and the kid to be with her.To
      cut the story short,DR ABIZA also told me what to do which i did and my
      friend hated my husband so much that she never wanted to see him again
      and after three days my husband came back to me begging for my
      forgiveness.Today am happy with my husband again.If you are having any
      problem like this you can email him through this
      address:{DRABIZASPELLTEMPLE20@HOTMAIL.COM},and you can count on him for a
      great help.

    • Lily West

      Kelly 2 is right on the money. I’m pretty tired of women who know better being lectured by men who think they’re giving us a biology lesson we haven’t heard before, and young women who think their take on the subject is so fresh and new. I hate to break this to you, but most of us out here who know the ropes used to be the “understanding” wife or girlfriend trying to be tolerant of our men’s wandering eye. It’s a waste of time because it never gets better, and in fact it gets worse as the frail male ego gets older and they start taking their wives for granted. And if anyone thinks that there aren’t plenty of men out here who whine about their “insecure” women who don’t secretly love it and who sometimes do it on purpose to stay in the driver’s seat, you’ve got a lot to learn.

      As far as the excuses as to why, it’s all a bunch of bull. Most men are not all that attractive, don’t have that much money, and are NOT in shape. If I could say anything to young women it would be this: Forget the stupid fairy tales. Love does not conquer all and is not more important than your self-respect. It is often mistaken for dependence or not wanting to be alone. Don’t do that to yourself. You will NEVER change anything about a man EVER. Maintain a basic level of respect you insist upon and enforce it. Quit trying to make a relationship that isn’t working work. LEAVE.

    • Jamie Sue

      I am extremely glad I read this. What if my boyfriend does feed off my insecurities? Time to hide my vulnerable side from him and show a bit more confidence. I agree relationships aren’t perfect but you shouldn’t have to try so hard either. perhaps it is better to leave if you are working for nothing.

    • Lorie

      So true! God can help us on in our minds and on what to do. Id it gets that bad and were sick of it. Oh yeah we will know.

    • frecklish

      loved this! thank you

    • Sagey

      Brilliant, nice one for the refreshing take on it…

    • fluella

      bang on!

    • Lisa

      On this website, a lot of people including you are saying how I have felt for years. None of the women my ex liked (celebrities) looked like me. It has made me very insecure, even though people will come up to me and say I’m pretty.

      And I have had that feeling of him imagining having sex with someone else while he is with me.

      The thing is we are good enough…to so many men, but just not the one we are with…it’s really sad. I’m sure other men will see us and feel bad because they wouldn’t do the same thing.

      I’m so mad at myself for staying in a relationship like this for so long.

      Even if you have a kid with a guy, sorry but it’s not worth feeling like this your whole life just for the sake of the kid. It will actually have a negative effect on the kid. I am living proof of this.

  • phuong

    I think this article is a bit degrading to women simply at the fact that it implies that because its normal, women have to put up with it because at the end of the day, the problem is not him but your own insecurities. Men who check out other women in front of their own partner are down right disrespectful. Period. I dont think there are any women out there who would be comfortable with this

    • btchinmama

      Totally agree here, I don’t mind a complimentary glance, but as women we wear our hearts on our sleeve. And the thought of your man/husband/girlfriend/wife thinking of another during sex is repulsing. And any woman who is ok with the fact he wishes you were someone else is seriously blind.

  • Sandy

    I am constantly reading about how men are biologically programmed to be sexually attracted to good looking or sexy women and that they have no control over these feelings or actions. Well where does that leave the wives and girlfriends of these men. Not in a very good place. You would think they would have progressed from the time of cave men and become socialized to the point where they could control their lust. There is no longer a need to spread their seed to as many women as possible. I think the world is well populated enough now. Unfortunitely for us, they are still hot for other women.

    I have been married for 25 years and my husband was looking at porn and sexy videos. I hate to tell you young women this but it doesn’t get better when they get older. He has stopped the porn (I think) since I caught him and lost my mind. But it hasn’t stopped him from looking at women and never will. I tried to make him understand how terrible it made me feel with such a feeling of disappointment and devastation, but I don’t know if he gets it or doesn’t want the guilt feelings. He won’t talk to me about it so I’m trying to deal with it as best I can.

    • Dianne

      My guess is that he hasn’t stopped, but wants you to think he has. If you have a guy friend ask him how he would respond if his wife told him to no longer look at porn. 9 times out of 10, the response is: I’ll continue to do it, but just hope that I won’t get caught.

    • Julie

      I recommend reading “Why women have sex” by David Buss. We have sex for so many reasons other than men. We are more complicated. Go to a Jon Bon Jovi concert and you will see women screaming their lungs out for him. Most of them would sleep with him if they could.

      Most men are boring and unexciting- even if we love them. We like thinking about, looking at and fantasizing about hot men. Women don’t confess this because there’s this “slut” label that is ready to thrown at us by these very insecure men. If men weren’t threatened by women’s sexual power, why would they bother to demean a woman by labeling her “slut, whore, etc”? Why would they call us a whore if we have sex with more than one guy on the same day? We can. We can even get out of bed with one and have desire for another man very soon after. We don’t need to “recover” from ejaculation so we can run off to someone else-unlike a guy.

      I am a woman and I want variety, too! I look at attractive men. I like catching his gaze and dragging him like a puppy on a leash. Women have the power to sleep with multiple men in one day and DO remember the man they are attracted to. THAT is more dangerous than these Neanderthals forgetting about the woman they looked at. A woman may even fantasize about a man she liked during sex with her man. I certainly do. It has NOTHING to do with my not loving my man or not being satisfied with him in bed. I ALSO like variety. The way I get my variety is not just by staring but remembering and thinking about other men with whom I’ve made flirty eye contact. I have asked other female friends and they do remember those guys as well.

      Ladies, you are not powerless. If he is staring at chicks in bikiniz, you can fantasize about the guys who gave you that stare, too. You can keep him alive in your memory. In fact, I can remember every guy I have been attracted in my whole life to if I wanted to.

      Plus, we can get MOST men we want, whereas most men can only get very few women they find attractive- unless they are Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Mel Gibson or Mick Jagger. Who’s laughing now?

    • Sharon

      They are not programmed to look..they are programmed to make women feel like shit by society…if women stood up and said fk off! I’m outta here with the next hot new man..they wouldn’t be getting away with this crap..women are actually MORE programmed to look than men..look it up.

    • Pulchritudinous Diamond

      If they are only looking at ass and breast , they dont care about anything else its an issue. Bet he look at mens ass too. Face it hes sick

  • Cynthia

    I understand what you are saying but I have a big problem with my husband looking at other women…period. I know why, and it is because of my own insecurities. I don’t want my husband looking at women I find sexier than me. I had three children, so my body isn’t perfect like the women he may look at, and it makes me feel like he would rather have that than me. I do not intentionally look at men, and I do not think my husband should intentionally look at other women. If he searches the internet or has certain apps on his phone with these women, then that is telling me he is unsatisfied with what I look like and he needs these women. I can understand being at the beach and some chick walks by and he looks, I will probably look too. It bothers me if he is searching for it. How do you think I can over come these insecurities, because it drives me crazy!

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    • ulie

      I recommend reading “Why women have sex” by David Buss. We have sex for so many reasons other than men. We are more complicated. Go to a Jon Bon Jovi concert and you will see women screaming their lungs out for him. Most of them would sleep with him if they could.

      Most men are boring and unexciting- even if we love them. We like thinking about, looking at and fantasizing about hot men. Women don’t confess this because there’s this “slut” label that is ready to thrown at us by these very insecure men. If men weren’t threatened by women’s sexual power, why would they bother to demean a woman by labeling her “slut, whore, etc”? Why would they call us a whore if we have sex with more than one guy on the same day? We can. We can even get out of bed with one and have desire for another man very soon after. We don’t need to “recover” from ejaculation so we can run off to someone else-unlike a guy.

      I am a woman and I want variety, too! I look at attractive men. I like catching his gaze and dragging him like a puppy on a leash. Women have the power to sleep with multiple men in one day and DO remember the man they are attracted to. THAT is more dangerous than these Neanderthals forgetting about the woman they looked at. A woman may even fantasize about a man she liked during sex with her man. I certainly do. It has NOTHING to do with my not loving my man or not being satisfied with him in bed. I ALSO like variety. The way I get my variety is not just by staring but remembering and thinking about other men with whom I’ve made flirty eye contact. I have asked other female friends and they do remember those guys as well.

      Ladies, you are not powerless. If he is staring at other chicks, you can fantasize about the guys who gave you that stare, too. You can keep him alive in your memory. In fact, I can remember every guy I have been attracted in my whole life to if I wanted to.

      Plus, we can get MOST men we want, whereas most men can only get very few women they find attractive- unless they are Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Mel Gibson or Mick Jagger. Who’s laughing now?

  • wtf?!

    Wow. All I can say is this article was some of the worst advice on relationships I’ve ever read from a woman. Judging by the readers’ comments alone, the author is NOT in touch with what women are REALLY thinking. What part about lowering your standards is “empowering”? I feel the pain these women in the comments section are expressing. The author, in my opinion, feels that in order to succeed in a relationship, it is necessary to give up and go with the lie that men don’t have control over their reactions and women are too insecure. My boyfriend and I had this discussion last night and he made the exact same argument as this columnist – that women make a big deal out of this for nothing. Which leads me to believe 1) she really is way off on her advice to women and/or 2) this article was ultimately approved by a man who justifies disrespecting women in this way.

    My advice to men: Don’t gaze at other women when you’re with your partner. Period. So simple. There’s no need to compromise here. I mean really, is it worth damaging, and possibly ruining, your relationship for 5 seconds of gawking at someone in the background? Will you endanger your health or cause the planet to explode if you don’t get those 5 seconds? It’s not like you don’t have an overabundance of sexual images available to you at any moment of the day. Be honest with yourself and BE yourself – but remember to respect your partner first at all times. This is reasonable.

    My advice to women confused on this issue, think to yourselves: Is this behavior acceptable for your daughter? I don’t have kids, but I imagine how I would handle explaining to my impressionable teen what she should think and feel in this situation. Do I tell her to just expect boys/men to do things that will hurt her feelings, but don’t bring it up because she may look insecure or weak or bitchy? Or do I tell her to be clear at the beginning of what she will not tolerate BECAUSE she DOES respect herself as she should?

    Here’s another scenario for both men and women to ponder: If you witnessed your father admiring another woman in your mother’s presence, how would that make you feel? Ask your mother to tell you how she really feels about it…

    • valerie

      Total agreement. The common thread throughout the readers’ comments is that this is a matter of respect, not women’s insecurities. Hayell, this is what makes us insecure!

    • Maria

      Could not agree with you more!

    • Dumbest advice ever Sarah

      Seriously this advice blows, ALL of it!! Any woman WITH self esteem does not need to put up with crap like that. OMG Sarah Prout I can only imagine you are on some wacky pills that make you high as a kite, busy smelling flowers and tiptoeing around chanting to yourself all day “he loves me…” “he loves me…” as your horny pig of a boyfriend is out banging anything that walks because you allow it. Or your too jacked up to care. Sheeesh you are nuts

    • MamaK

      There is too much emphasis here on “when your with your partner.” or “in front of your partner.” This suggests that it is less damaging to the relationship, which may be true. But the times when a man is not with his partner, it’s more acceptable to look because it won’t hurt the female partner? i.e., what she doesn’t know won’t hurt her? So ignorance is bliss–not likely.
      If you are going through what I’m going through with my man looking at other women, then struggling with this…you are not alone. Men CAN train their eyes not to wonder. If the man wants to have variety and fantasy, stay single. Someone else will respect the woman you are. Men, don’t be surprised if the more you look at other women (whether in front of your wife or not), the less she wants to make love and be close to YOU. It’s a catch 22. Pick your pain and prioritize for heaven’s sake. Pick your pleasure–you CANT have it both ways in the long run. Choose to be respectful and you will be respected!

    • Cougar Age

      There isn’t BLATANT disrespect when you aren’t with your partner. That’s the difference. If I can respect a man enough not to LEER at other men, then any man I’m dating better have that SAME capability, or it won’t last very long at all!

  • Majka

    Thank you for taking the time to write this article. I hope it will help women who are struggling with this. Personally, I can’t accept this, I am more of the same mind as Kelly2 who wrote “I would rather be alone than a glory hole and have to reassure my self at least he came home to have sex with me rather than act on his thoughts.” When I found out that men were attracted to other women although they were in a relationship, I decided to be single for life. I have been single for 1.5 years now and going strong.

    But I have to say, it might not be simply a matter of insecurity. I didn’t think that my ex-boyfriend found other women prettier than me or that he was going to act on his attraction to them. However, I simply did not feel comfortable from a moral standpoint, that he was my boyfriend but yet still enjoyed looking at other women’s bodies.

    I know I’d be a lot happier in life if I, like every woman I have ever spoken to about this, was okay with a partner being attracted to others. It was wonderful being in a relationship. However, I simply cannot come to terms with this and I don’t even want to be okay with this, because in my mind I would be condoning something very immoral (no offence – just my viewpoint).

    • Illi

      I agree with you majka if i knew that part i would never be in a relation 🙁 its damn hurting to know that you are not enough for him if energy was the issue i would have sleep with any guy…

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